What I'm saying is, maybe get out there and talk to somebody you've never roleplayed with? Either that, or don't be shy- we all know we're nice, awesome people and will most likely not turn you down. I'll admit, I shy away sometimes as well. It would be helpful if we could get along a little better.
This may not apply to everyone, but from what I heard, most people are having that issue. This is aaaaall just a suggestion, so don't think you have to go out and do what I say... but that would be cool because it means I have taken control of your mind briefly. :D
And there are some people who have just... well, died. :/